I welcome you on a journey that you would start with in yourself and after which you shall never be the same.
I am Syed Hassan Abbas. And I do love to write. I do love to listen to my heart and love to share to you what I listen. I have more other introductions but at the moment its enough to start our communication. I used to be an introvert, some one who does not like much to tell or talk about one self. I also did not love myself. I rather was involved in some thing that I today calledanti-love. It is not hate, but it isn’t love either.
Those wonderful eleven years:
Before I started to write here at this blog, I had eleven very painful years of my life. What did I go through in those years has not very much to do here at this point, I may some day share that in one of my writings, but during those years I did not love myself.
But this blog has every thing to do with, how I dealt with myself and transformed after those eleven years. Today I call those extremely painful years as those eleven wonderful years, because I realize that without them, I could not have become, what I am today!
I learnt that most of us do not love ourselves:
The lack of knowing about genuine love, the lack of genuine love, the lack of genuine love towards ourselves and others is the biggest source of pain that we go through and this pain is not even necessary. It is kind of self-inflicted.
Hey…..…….from this side :
Today, I meet tens of dozen of people inflicting the same pain to themselves and those dear to them, and going through the same misery that I had gone through for quite a period of my life.I started to write this all to allow every one who reads these words, to understand genuine love and to not go through an unnecessary pain in life.
I would think is this necessary for every one else to go through the same pain, that I had gone through? If I have bruised myself carving out a path in a thick forest, can I not shout out to others……. Hey from this side !
What is love re-defined about?
Love redefined is about loving oneself. It’s about developing the capacity to love ourselves, before we start or claim to love others.
To love is to take action and to allow oneself grow mentally and by spirit.Redefining love thus is about teaching ourselves to take action and to grow.
Love redefined is about making people see love different from the myths ofholly woodand romance literature. It is to see love from the works of fiction authors to what nature wanted us to do with love: transformation !
Real love has huge power. It transforms. I know it because it has transformed me. We tend to focus only one aspect of love, the one related to the gender difference and the sensual and the sexual attraction caused by it. Love is beyond what we normally think, that’s why God chose it to be his first expression !