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September 2026 · Love Redefined

Delaying Gratification (2)

Delaying gratification means to delay the pleasure for a higher reward or a higher destiny we believe in. For that we have to have a higher cause; a...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Delaying Gratification (1)

Being able to truly love ourselves involves delaying gratification. This can be best explained by the experiment conducted with children aged 4 to 6 at Stanford University in...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Dear DR Tow

Dear DR. Tow In a responce to my last post DR.Tow Khee Kin from Malaysia asked a few questions at a social media website. It was DR.Tow’s questions that...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Contemplation

Contemplation is silencing one self to see what has been happening and how we tackled the happening. Contemplation is investing in time to mentor oneself. Contemplation is a...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Complacency

When we think we don’t need to learn further, we have become complacent. To handle complacency is to handle internal inertia. There is only one way out from...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Can you make a promise to yourself ?

That I shall not judge any one for one hour…today. I shall not think that : People are right or wrong, that my boss should not have done...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Can you imagine yourself walking but on nothing?

The act of walking takes two components. Us and the earth. We cannot imagine walking without Earth or soil or ground or path or a road or call...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Calmness

Love instills calmness, sometimes so much that it can be felt by strangers and people whom have never met us before ! From the collections of Hassan Bukhari....

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Be willing for a thousand cuts

A hand searches some thing in the mudded floor of a mine. A stone rolls itself towards the palm. The hand picks it up and takes off mud...

August 2026 · Love Redefined

Are you still carrying her?

Two monks were walking down a muddy road. It had rained whole day and the road at certain spots had become uncrossable. At a turn of a road...

July 2026 · Love Redefined

Are you qualified enough?

Once, through my office was sent a training proposal to a school not very old enough but claiming to establish British standards of education in Pakistan. We had...

July 2026 · Love Redefined

Are you in Paris?

How do we really know if we have reached Paris? Take your head out of your window or go to the end of the street, look here and...